In the 1950s, the common image of a leader was one who spent their entire career with the same employer. This is still common practice in Japan, where Shūshin koyō (終身雇用) is the term for permanent employment.[1] Since the 1920s, it is common in major Japanese companies to shire a group of graduates straight from college and offer them a job role. Japanese management culture seeks to avoid dismissals or early retirement offers. This sense of job security created a high degree of company loyalty. As a result, Japanese workers are known for putting their jobs ahead of all other priorities in life, including family and religion.
Today, though, this is changing. In the US, the average person will have 10 different jobs before they retire, spending about 2-3 years at each, at most.[2] The major economic recession of 2007-2010 caused even the dependable Japanese to do away with their lifetime employment guarantees and implement mass layoffs. Globalization, outsourcing, downsizing, recession, technology—all have created a “gig economy” where people are accustomed to changing jobs more often, or working two or more jobs at the same time. As work becomes less of a vocation, and more of a commodity, it has profoundly affected how we view a facet of a leader’s character: loyalty.
This idea of a strong support or allegiance to an employer has largely faded. In today’s culture, does loyalty matter? One can be loyal to a company, a person, a group, an ideal, a duty, a cause. We used to look at loyalty in the workplace as a core value. If one was loyal, they were also trustworthy, worthy of greater responsibility because of their personal sense of devotion. Because loyalty is important to building bonds between people and creating lasting, trusting relationships, it matters. However, it is no longer expressed in the workplace as a longevity at a specific job.
A modern demonstration of loyalty is to be consistent and gracious in your treatment and behavior and with regard to others.[3] Loyalty creates an unspoken bond and deep connetion between people. Consider three areas where loyalty can be expressed:
Express loyalty through relationships. Loyalty in relationships may be expressed as kindness, fairness and a generous spirit. This is true for all kinds of relationships—work, social, family, romantic. When you value each relationship in the way you treat someone, you increase others’ mental, emotional and physical well-being.[4] The Bible says, “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude” (1 Corinthians 13:4).
Express loyalty through trustworthiness. Loyalty as an aspect of trust might be expressed as honesty and transparency in dealings with others. When you are open and forthcoming, you build confidence and safety in your relationships with others. This strengthens those relationships. Psychologist Dr. Sabrina Romanoff comments, “Relationships with loyalty are stronger because both people can be themselves and share what they’re experiencing without fear that the other person will abandon them.” The Bible teaches, “In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us” (Titus 2:7-8).
Express loyalty through appreciation. There is no better way to communicate the significance of other people to you than to show them that you value them. Offering support when someone is struggling or challenged, and encouraging them to not give up, helps them to gain confidence. Appreciation is also a sign of respect. The Bible instructs, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:8).
American politics is getting more intense and divisive by the day. The democratic tradition of debate and discourse, leading to compromise and unity, is all but gone in the US. Instead, we gather into tribes based on deeply held political beliefs, we deride the opposition.
A bot is an automated software application which can perform repetitive and interactive tasks that people don’t like to do—like making phone calls, taking orders, and collecting information. What are the limits of AI bots, and why is a leader’s interaction more important and many cases?
“Character is who you are when no one else is looking.” It’s only when nobody else is watching—when you are alone, or when the social media cameras aren’t pointing at you—that you reveal who you are deep down.
As a leader, you’re not over a what, but a who. To lead is to influence others in a way that helps them grow personally, professionally and spiritually. Leadership is fundamentally about influencing people.
Anxiety most often grows from lack of knowledge and/or control. It’s easy to be afraid of that which we don’t understand, or can’t foresee. The Bible addresses anxiety directly. We find at least three spiritual resources we can use to overcome anxiety in life and work.
Some leaders see themselves as a steward of their position. Others want to claim a top position in business. Still others want to accomplish something specific. None of these purposes, however, outlast the leader himself.
Nicholas Lou Saban, Jr. is an American football coach, most known for his 17 years as Head Coach at the University of Alabama. He is widely considered one of the greatest college coaches of all time.
We complain constantly, at home and at work. This spills over in our culture, which is consumed by victimhood. In social media, the news media, education, government and business, we are on the lookout for every tiny hint of present and historical unfairness.
One of the greatest investments you can make as a leader will not be found in a stock selection, or emerging technologies, or foreign markets. A leader’s most powerful commodity is his relationships with people.
Once a person surrenders their life to Christ, faith and leadership cannot be separated. It is “baked in”. The difference in Christian leadership is that faith takes point for the leader.
Is there a summary for us of the Christian faith? Is there a simple statement that a leader can read that brings all of what we believe as Christ-followers into focus? Jesus Himself summarized the teachings of God in a few words.
In the US, the average person will have 10 different jobs before they retire, spending about 2-3 years at each, at most. This idea of a strong support or allegiance to an employer has largely faded. In today’s culture, does loyalty even matter?
Life and work at some level are to be about reaching, striving, pushing forward. God did not put us on the earth to do nothing with our lives. Yet that is exactly what many men are doing in our culture.
An alarming trend is younger workers checking out. Whether from burnout, mental health issues, boredom or self-isolation, more and more workers and leaders and disengaging. What does the Bible say about it?
The venerable 747 jetliner is ending. The last one has been assembled. Leaders have a tendency to believe that once something starts, it will continue in perpetuity for all time to come. But it just isn’t so.
The pandemic artificially forced everyone to isolate as much as possible from non-family members. Many went from a situation that was forced to one which was favored. What about post-pandemic?
When we celebrate on July 4 now, 245 years and as many political reinterpretations later, it begs the question, “What freedom are we celebrating?” Christ brings us a clear and meaningful definition of freedom that transcends our July 4 celebration.
The selfless, brave, serving, chivalrous and kind men we aspired to be growing up have been largely replaced by a generation more self-involved, fragile and less grounded to an internal moral code. What happened?
History’s most pivotal spiritual moment is celebrated at Easter. Perhaps the greatest way we celebrate Easter is to echo the life of Christ as His followers in how we love others.
Pressure for a leader is the influences of persuasion, intimidation or circumstances that are trying to force the leader to do something. But the answer to pressure may surprise you.
In the realm of leadership and life, is gratitude just an emotion, a feeling? Is it simply an attitude, or maybe a psychological construct? None of the above. Gratitude is an action.
A mentor is an advisor and support for someone less experienced. This is not a manager, but rather a specific relationship designed to build up the skills and experience of the mentee.
In men today we have a crisis of the unmentored. Because men lack wisdom-building relationships, they cannot become the leaders they need to be for their marriages, families and businesses.
Undoubtedly we are more connected than ever before through electronic means. Yet our collective ability to navigate difficult conversations, especially conflict, is terrible. Perhaps our connections have become echo-chambers for groupthink.
Do you know why you do what you do? Only around 25% of Americans adults cite having a clear sense of what makes their lives meaningful.
Skip past the weather, sports talk and thoughts on the day’s salacious news headline. What you ask will communicate that you value the other person, and what they have to say. The information you gather can have a marked impact on your leadership.
In Christ, men have everything to fear. As we develop a healthy fear of God, that sense of reverence, awe and respect guides our thoughts and actions. Scripture consistently connects our fear of God to living smart.
Leaders aren’t full of limitless energy. Go hard enough for long enough and you’ll run out of steam. You need to relax, refresh and recharge.
A table might not seem like a foundation for developing as a man, a husband, a father, a leader, but it is! Leadership is ultimately about your impact and influence on other people. At Friday Morning Men’s Fellowship we focus leadership development at a table.
There’s nothing wrong with being likeable and agreeable as a leader—but to a point. Likeability is not universal. No matter how focused a leader is on building relationships, exhibiting empathy and listening well, he will not be universally liked.